Here is a little bit of these sketches explaination.  One idea is to match your behavior to the culture.  Many of our personal changes are linked to the culture.  Next idea is that as we use our reasoning to figure out our changes, it is a good idea to reinforce the clear good decisions.   Many times, as we are learning the path ahead, we can make a series of corrections to get the path right.  Like making a rough sketch, and then correcting errors to get a good sketch out if it.  Finally, both our personal mind, and our culture, have permenent parts and changing parts.  I advise finding the harmony between permenent and change.  See the sketches, and see if you agree?